How to Stop Wasting Time Now

“Waste Time Faster.” This is a phrase on a billboard advertising high speed internet.  I laugh each time I see it, but it also makes me think about how much time we do waste on the internet.  Playing around online is just one of many activities we use to avoid getting things done.  Of course, the things we are avoiding are usually things that may be difficult or not so pleasant.

Avoidance behavior is a component of procrastination.  Some causes of procrastination are task related anxiety, fear of failure, perfectionism, and lack of knowledge.  When you think about that it’s no wonder we find such creative ways to avoid tackling those tasks.  Imagine that you have agreed to take on a new project at work.  You are pretty excited because you know that the success of this event will have a positive impact on your career.  Once the excitement wears off a little, you realize there are some pieces of this project that you aren’t quite sure how to get complete.  Each time you sit down to get started on the project, you feel overwhelmed or don’t really know where to begin.  So, what do you do?  Maybe you start some project related research on the internet.  Then you remember that you really wanted to check out the scores from Sunday’s football games.  Ladies,  your example might be a little different, but I think you know where I’m going with this.  As you check out the football scores, you see a link to a video of a spectacular play.  You proceed to watch the video and see some other videos that look interesting.  An hour later, you’ve caught up on all the football scores, watched some re-plays, and maybe a few hilarious videos of kids dancing to “booty” music.  It’s time for lunch so you head out the door having accomplished nothing related to the project.

Does that sound remotely familiar to anyone?  I will be the first to admit that I do this very thing when I am doing something new or something that might push me a little outside my comfort zone.  But we also use these techniques to avoid everyday tasks.  Here are three steps to help minimize your task avoidance time wasters.

Three steps to curbing avoidance behavior

1)      Awareness is the first step in changing any behavior.  If you recognized yourself in the example and you want to change this behavior, pay attention to what avoidance behaviors you are engaging.  Surfing the internet is just one form of avoidance behavior.  Some other examples are watching television, reading magazines, hallway conversations with colleagues, checking email.  To be clear, none of things is necessarily bad, but when used to avoid other, more important tasks, they will kill your productivity.  Identify your avoidance techniques.

2)      Minimize distractions. Once you have identified your avoidance behaviors, it’s important that you come up with strategies to reduce the likelihood that you will engage them.  My top two avoidance behaviors are checking email and internet surfing.  When I need to work on important project it’s best that I am in an environment where the internet is not available.  Or the connection is so slow that it’s annoying!  I have also discovered that I work best away from my home office and in a place with something pleasing to look at.  Those of us working from home have so many potential distractions. Laundry, dishes, kids, spouses, and pets.  It’s really helpful to find a place that allows you to concentrate.  So, what can you do to minimize your distractions?

3)      Get things done.  Finally, get it done!  Sometimes tasks seem a lot more difficult that they really are.  I think you will be pleasantly surprised at how much you will get done when you minimize your distractions and truly focus on the task at hand.

I hope this information helps you to get more done this week!  Remember that the objective is not to cram your life with “things to do”, but to get things done in less time so that you can spend more time enjoying your life!

Is Your Self-Image Sabotaging Your Success?

While working with a client a couple of weeks ago, I noticed that she was repeatedly saying that she would never be able to do this organizing work without me. Now, I had heard this before, but this time I had some new information that made me stop to think what this really meant for her.

A couple of months ago I was introduced to a program called “The Winner’s Image” produced by Bob Proctor. In the program Bob equates our self-image to the auto pilot feature of an airplane.  The auto pilot is set to a certain course and corrects should the plane veer off course.  Now, think about self-image for a moment.  Your behavior patterns are a direct reflection of what you believe about yourself.  If you believe that you are a successful person and bring in lots of money each month, then you probably do just that.  However, if you don’t truly believe that you are that successful, wealthy person, what happens when you do experience some success?  You have a fabulous month bringing in more money that you ever have.  Then self-doubt sets in and your self-image auto pilot begins to bring you back to your old course.

Getting and staying organized is no different from the success example.  Hearing my client saying that she would never be able to do this without me and thinking back to other clients who I’d heard say the same thing, made me realize that their self-image is dictating the situation.  No, they won’t be able to do this without me, if that’s what they truly believe.  Their self-image is telling them that they can’t be organized or stay organized because they haven’t been able to do it before.  Or because so many people have told them how messy and disorganized they are and they believe that about themselves.  If you don’t truly believe that you can get and stay organized, you will not get and stay organized.  If we move a little outside of our belief about ourselves, the self-image autopilot will bring us back to its original course.

So, how do we conquer this?  Change your self-image.  This is no easy task, but is guaranteed to get those behavior changes to stick.  Create the fantasy or vision of what you want your life to be like.  Are there people you can model?  Write your new vision out in detail.  One of the most important questions to ask in the self-image changing process is “Am I Willing.”  Are you really willing to do what is necessary to make the changes you are seeking?  Really think about this.  If you really aren’t willing to make the changes necessary to be successful at getting and staying organized, maybe it really isn’t as important to you as you once thought it was.  Once you have written out your new self-image it’s important to focus on the changes you must make and reviewing your goal regularly.  As I said, this is no small or easy task, but one that is well worth the effort.

As you consider your goal to be more organized and productive, pay attention to the things you are telling yourself.  Is your self-image dictating that you can’t be organized?  If so, consider a self-image overhaul!  It will be one of the best investments you ever make.